The Women We Know: Mom Edition

Moms can be the superheroes of our lives, so we wanted to take this day to highlight 3 mompreneurs that we love, respect & admire. These women walk with grace under fire and the glow up is real!

As a mom myself, I know how tough it can be to balance career and mom life. Frankly, there is no balance but we keep it moving for our families, our businesses and ourselves.

So, get to know some our mom friends but remember, everyday is the perfect day to appreciate the mothers in our lives. Mother’s Day is everyday.


DEVI BROWN: Mama to Quest Mandela; Founder of Karma Bliss

 Tell us about yourself? Who you be? Where you from? Where you rest at?

My name is Devi Brown, Born and Raised in L.A. I currently reside in my beloved Los Angeles but also spent a few years living and working in NYC and Houston, TX! I am a new mommy, veteran broadcaster, small business owner and author.

 Why did you start Karma Bliss?

I originally started Karma Bliss because I was getting so many questions from my radio listeners and social media followers about my spiritual journey. I wanted a space to share and to connect people with wellness products I used and loved. That desire has since evolved into a mission to specifically connect women of color with tools for self-discovery and experiences for transformation.

What kind of women do you see benefiting from Karma Bliss?

Women who want to unburden themselves from generational trauma that has been passed down. Women who want to live for purposefully. Women who want to cultivate more joy and more peace into their lives. 

Who are some women you admire?

My Mother Lori, Zoila Darton (of course!), Nicole Garcia of Victory House, Oprah (obvi!), Myleik Teele, Necole Kane, Karlie Hustle, Jas Fly, Morgan DeBaun, Fadia Kadar, Tracy G. Truly there are SO MANY so any I have left out on accident please charge it to my mind and not my heart.

IG accounts that you love to follow:

@Myleik – She oozes excellence. Our life philosophies and standards are very similar so I find her content extremely relevant and I trust all of her reccomendations. 

@Hire.Women – I love their quotes

@JasFly – Her creativity and Self-Expression inspire me. There is an art to her stories. 

 Life mantra

“…seek the path that demands your whole being”- Rumi


RACHEL GOMEZ: Mama to Aydn; Founder of Viva La Bonita

Tell us about yourself? Who you be? Where you from? Where you rest at? 

Hola! My name is Rachel Gomez and I was born in Van Nuys, CA but raised in Pacoima, CA. So I rep the 818 hard in everything I do. I love where I'm rooted and I respect the city that made me. I am a Mom of a beautiful baby boy who changed my life the day he formed life in my womb. He is the reason I am the woman I am today. 

Why did you start Viva La Bonita?

I started Viva La Bonita because I didn't see myself represented in not just fashion, but the world. At the time I started Viva La Bonita there wasn't very many brands that created a positive and uplifting voice for the Latina community. There were brands that were focused on creating a "look" versus a lifestyle. I didn't want to a brand that created the "Latina" look. I wanted to create a brand that would empower and remind women of their worth. To encourage them to see the world for not what it is, but for what it could be. 

What kind of women do you see benefiting from VLB?

The kind of women that benefit from VLB are the women who strive to exist & succeed in a world where they don't have to "tone down" their Latina-ness. We're beautiful, we're passionate, and we're worthy. Women don't constantly need to be told what to do. But we do need that homegirl in our ear from time to time that's reminding us who we are and what we're capable of. VLB is that. 

Who are some women you admire? 

I admire the woman who raised me, my grandma. She is the hardest working woman I know. She made walking through life look easy when she had one of the hardest journey's I've witnessed. No matter what happened in life, that woman kept her head held high, believed in her power, and never skipped a beat. I hope to be even half the woman she is. I don't know what my life would have been without her. 

IG accounts that you love to follow:

I absolutely love @justlbby on IG. She takes us to church every single time she posts videos on IG. She keeps it real and straight to the point. That's the kind of motivation I need in my life. 

I love @subliming.jpg because I am such a visual person & this page not only posts motivating quotes but it has the coolest graphic design and a dope play on colors.

Life mantra:

My life since the last 2 1/2 years has been powered by truly believing in MYSELF and MY crazy ass dreams. Life is wild and it's noisy. Social media is like the 405 during rush hour packed with so many people "living their best life" that you can't help but get caught in the art of comparison. I've learned to block out the noise, stay in my lane, and do all the shit I said I was gonna do. 

So my mantra is simple: "Dream Big and do ya thing B".  


CASSANDRA DOW: Mama to Lennox, Founder of Womxn of Color Create

Tell us about yourself? Who you be? Where you from? Where you rest at? 

I'm Cassandra, found of Womxn of Color Create, an online community and media company chronicling and empowering the intersection of being a woman of color and a creative.

I was born in Brooklyn, and when I was 5 my mom moved us to Oregon.  This was a shock to my brown skinned, curly headed, train riding, Spanish speaking system and I hated it, to say the least.  It wasn't till much later that I learned just how useful this isolated brown girl experience would be to my creative identity.  I completed college in Oregon, where I started out studying Ethnic Studies eventually switching to an Art School to study Interior Architecture.  This original presence of choice between social justice and creativity would also become foundational in the creation of wocc.  

I completed school, working at various showrooms, surviving the crash of 2008 and the newly dried up design scene in Portland.  I had been in a long term relationship of 8 years which was also dried up and not serving me.  Looking back on it it seems sudden, but it was actually a long time process, I finally made the decision to leave the relationship and leave Portland.  I emailed a long time family friend who had taken on his dads growing leather accessory company and asked for a job.  Within 3 months I had ended my relationship, packed my stuff up in a U-Haul and moved back to a town I hated to start a job I was finally excited about.  It's hard to articulate just how powerful this transition was in my life.  It was truly internally activated.  All I can say is, always take a chance on yourself.

I worked for the same company for close to 5 years.  It was a family owned business.  In this environment I learned a lot about breached boundaries, but I also got to learn so much about the aspects of a growing brand and everything it takes to build.  I got to work on so many aspects of the business from product development to brand management, web commerce to wholesale management, product shoots to trade show production.  I got to travel with them for several years repping them as a brand ambassador and opened doors for them such as Fred Segal, Saks 5th Avenue and my personal favorite Brooklyn Circus.  It was truly some of the most fun I've had and my first time standing in my creative power.  

The job eventually moved me to Los Angeles.  I burned out on the business for various reasons and floated around LA for a couple of years working for some other smaller design labels, eventually coming to the conclusion I needed a break.  Once again, I found myself packing my car up and headed back up I5 to the town I hated but seemed a good resting place for me.  

I was uncertain what I would do there.  But I knew that the previous 10 years between design school and creative jobs, I was a desperately lonely creative black girl.  In all of these environments, I was 95% the only person of color and 98% the only black woman and 99% the only one with an active critical voice of our environments.  Black people create the culture.  This became glaringly obvious when I was the token one expected to be sent into the "cool" spaces and accounts in order to open doors.  We used Guatemalan fabrics to make bags and accessories at the leather company - I was certainly the only one uncomfortable with not acknowledging the source, issues around appropriation and more.  This was pre Trayvon, pre Mike Brown, pre Sandra Bland.  Rachel Cargle was not yet educating the masses via Instagram.  Nothing about my opinions on these creative concerns was appreciated in these environments and shutting it all in was starting to become exhausting and heavy.

I opted to re enroll at the university and complete the Ethnic Studies degree I had walked away from to pursue creativity.  I needed company, I needed to articulate and express everything I had seen and all of my discomfort with it.  And I also needed some room to reimagine what left me so exhausted.  A bit on Ethnic Studies, it is the study of power, essentially.  You study who patriarchy, misogyny, white supremacy, nationalism and capitalism have constructed all of the oppressive systems we live within.  But the liberating and ground breaking part of Ethnic Studies is you spend almost as much time reimagining these structures to set us all free, as you do studying how they are constructed and maintained.  If I could go on a personal tour about how every person of color should double major in Ethnic Studies and whatever else they want to study - we could tear this shit down and rebuild it in such a way we'd all be liberated and thriving, even the oppressors.  

So I did it.  In there, I got pregnant, in getting pregnant and being at a personal transition around my work I became a stay at home mom and relocated to be with my partner back to LA.  In this down time it became apparent and staring me in my face that what I was obsessed with is what women of color create.  How we navigate our spaces, and what we create in them.  How we decorate them.  How we express all of our beauty, power and thoughts.  The first drafts of what is becoming Womxn of Color Create were birthed shortly after.

Why did you start Womxn of Color Create?

I started wocc quite simply because I needed it.  I deeply desired company as a creative woman of color, but I also want to see more of us laying claim to our creative power.  In the US, black women play leadership role in producing the culture.  Women of Color as a global demographic are the larges number, but we hold the least amount of capital.  I want to see these come into congruence from top to bottom.  I want to see individual women pursuing and advancing their creative careers, and I want to see more of us in positions of power within creative industries, and I want to see us owning more of our own culture creating capital.  

Our first step is building an online community where us as individuals can share resources, from experience to skills and job openings.  We are building a space where creative women of color can come with the questions, their needs, as well as their experience and share with with each other for individual empowerment and collective growth.  We are chronicling our stories as creative women of color by us and for us.  We are collecting as many of our stories about how we got to our various positions and archiving them for all of us to reference and see ourselves in. 

What kind of women do you see benefiting from WOCC?

wocc is for any woman who is pursuing a creative career.  Architecture, fashion design, interior design, photography, writing, media and more.  We include  all free lance and entrepreneurial careers creative as well.  wocc is for women in any stage in their career as well.  We plan on building a tool shed of resources and an actual swap meet of skills to help us all advance our individual needs and aid each other in building experience.  

wocc is for any woman who calls her self a creative.  Who is creatively living her life.  Who is creating herself and her highest goals.

wocc is for any woman of color who has felt the isolation of being a woman of color or of being a creative.  woc is for any woman who has found herself the only one in her work place.  We are for anyone looking to grow their skills and community around their current trade and skill.  It is for anyone wanting to turn their creativity into a side hustle or a full time career but doesn't know where to start.  It's for women at the top of their career who want to hold the door open for more of us to enter.  It is for any creative woman of color who quite simply wants company and community.  So often being a creative woc can be so lonely if you're working in primarily white spaces, or even if you are free lance or an entrepreneur.  It can be hard to find like minded women who speak the same language and understand the pursuit of creativity.  wocc is for those women, and any of us wanting to build and lay claim to our creative power.

Who are some women you admire? 

Lindsey Peoples Wagner.  I find the path she's carved for herself while never compromising her voice and blackness incredibly rich.

Arlan Hamilton.  Her whole story is inspiring, but mostly I respect her vision, instinct and action.  It's the perfect recipe.  

Alexandria Occasio-Cortez.  Because she belongs to all of us red lipstick wearing big hoop wearing brown skinned smart girls who's mouths and brains got us called "angry" and "opinionated" long before it got trendy.

IG accounts that you love to follow:

@kaiaventdelon I just want to live in her whole life.

@pamelashamshiri / @studioshamshiri my favorite interior designer at the moment.  The spaces she makes are both sophisticated and full of life.

@notesfromyourtherapists I was raised by a therapist, and am completely burnt out on the superficial social media wisdom everyone is dropping.  This one is the only one that is a few degrees smarter in it's posturing and not just calling everyone you have trouble dealing with a narcissist (sometimes it's you, and we all need therapy! 

The Women We Know: Jess Hooper

The people we cross paths with have the ability to shape our trajectory of life. When you encounter someone, their presence will alter your life in some way or another and in most cases, we aren’t aware of the impact. It is only when we truly become in tune with these connections that we can begin to nurture the impact others have made on us.

We come across countless changemaking women on the daily. This series is dedicated to honoring the footprints of the women who step into the WORD world - one humble story at a time.

Meet Jess Hooper, a mother, a community builder & a woman dedicated to helping people find confidence in their decisions. Jess is the founder of On The Fence: a community and safe space for women to have hard conversations about life’s big choices. Jess believes that when we fully own our decisions it is only then that we are truly free. We’ve got to get off the fence and step into our amazing, authentic selves.

If you’re in LA, join Jess for a conversation around the taboos of becoming a mother on 2/21. This event is for anyone who has strong opinions against becoming a mother or anyone who is thinking about becoming a mom but is hesitant (think finances, not having a partner, age, etc). Jess has your back. Get tickets here.

1. Tell us about your life (loaded, we know):

I moved 16 times in 17 years.

Both of my parents served in the military, so moving is assumed to be a part of life, but these weren't military related moves. They were infidelity related moves; he'd cheat, she'd leave (we move), they get back together and try to "start fresh" so we'd move again. Stability felt like a myth, marriage a cruel joke, and the idea of starting a family was like signing up for misery.

It took rejecting the things that I saw in my own home, the beliefs I carried, and getting clear on what MY version of relationships and parenthood could look like. Challenging everything you think you know is both scary and liberating.

There's more to this story, but it catalyzed developing deep empathy for women and the tough decisions that we face. It also taught me that although our indecision may be understandable, it does not change the fact that it also keeps us stuck and unfulfilled.

2. Why did you start On The Fence?

I started On The Fence after the topic of motherhood kept coming up in my personal life. I'm a strong advocate of women doing what they want and have never questioned the reasons between wanting or not wanting children, but women in my circle had questions for me! I realized that there isnt a space for conversations around "why" a woman may have a tough time deciding things like "do you want children," "why don't you leave your unhappy relationship?" or "why don't you quit that job thats making you miserable"? These are loaded questions that can be impacted by finances, emotional and physical well being and more. There are "mom blogs" and "mom groups" but what about the women who feel out of place in those spaces (because they don't tie their identity exclusively to motherhood) what about the ones who do NOT want children and are faced with intrusive and downright rude questions about it?

3. What kind of women do you see benefiting from On The Fence?

Any woman who has ever felt like she was the only one struggling with making a major life decision. My events are first to show you that you are not alone, and second, provide resources and access to experts to ask the questions you've been afraid to speak out loud. And for women who have made those decisions to show up and support.

4. Who are some women you admire?

Ayanna Kimani / @ayannajkimani- I adore her, she is a dear friend and rule breaker after my own heart. She studied biology in college but made the ultimate pivot into fashion. When a woman goes from biology to costume designer you know the magic is strong!

My mother - It took me years to understand her reasons for staying married, her quiet strength and ride or die support for the people she loves taught me how to be a good friend and show up for people.

Cardi B - She’s taking everything we have been taught about being a wife and mother and rewriting the rules. Yes, paint yourself like a tiger and twerk on a boat (I hate the narrative around somehow being boring because you’re a wife/mom).

5. IG accounts that you love to follow:

@alaiyowaistbeads - Jasai (the woman behind the brand) showcases beauty in all body types and is reimaging what is "sexy."

@werenotreallystrangers - I live for debunking the myth that we are all special unicorns with special unicorn problems that nobody else will understand!

@crimson_fig - Telling birth stories of black women, showing options that many of us are not aware of.

6. What’s your life mantra?

Do what you have to do so you can do what you want to do.

You can keep up with Jess on Instagram and at On The Fence.